Thursday, November 15, 2007
the sweetest love story
was on mc yesterday cause was down with flu... actually i also wanted to take leave to visit my friend, C...
got a bad news somewhere towards the end of last wk... a long friend of mine had passed away in Canada due to an accident... C was his ex n also someone i had known for a long time...
went 2 visit C after seeing a doc cause she had been coping herself in her room since she heard that her ex had passed away... actually when i heard the news i cried as well... until now when i think of their story and of this dear friend of mine i still cry...
i'll be writing a story of them online but will reveal some sweet parts of their relationship here...
C and the boy were both in athletics and are very gd runners... but a few years back C's knee ligament tore and had to go america for surgery... without a second word, the boy dropped everything and accompanied here... when they went america it was winter and after surgery they went to a ski resort and stayed there... as it was a snowing season lots of people went there for skiing... C just had a op and cant ski then this friend of mine told her, "bear with it for now, when you recover no matter how many time you want to ski i'll always be there to accompany you and ski with you."
C has always like watching astrology stuff like sunrise, sunset, stars, meteor rain, etc so she would always want her bf to accompany her... she told me that one night in america she wanted to watch the sunrise so her bf went with her to the beach and in the cold they waited for daybreak... the next day her bf was down with high fever due to the cold weather...
the boy had always been very clever but C was just average... C once told him that she feel inferior when they are together cause he's so smart... but the boy gave her his assurance... he said, "you might not be the cleverest, the prettiest or the best but in my world you are the best."
all these are just some parts she told me... when C told me all these i could see the look of happiness that sparkled in her eyes... i'll write out their full story and will post the link when i'm done with it...
when C knew that he passed away she locked herself in her room for a week... she didnt eat or want to meet anyone... then her current bf told me and wanted me to try and talk to her... so i went...
for the whole week all she did in her room was to look @ their photos as well as the letters and gifts he had left for her... she listened to all their songs and watched all the videos of them and cry... i watched and listened to some of it with her yesterday and tears just keep flowing...
even i as an outsider could feel their strong love for each other and the passion that they had shared...
when i knew that the boy passed away last wk i told my mum and sis... so when i returned home yesterday i also told them of the story in a brief manner like i did above... i just cant get through some parts without crying... i only told my sis the story @ night while we were preparing for bed... she cried together with me... we felt that its a pity that they broke up, a pity that they can never tell each other how much they love each other now, how long it takes for them to realise their true love...
a sad end to a 9 year long relationship...
as i'm typing this in my office i'm holding back the tears that are threatening to fall out of my eyes soon... for now i have to be strong... i have to help C get back to her feet... i have to help her organise the memorial service we'll be holding for him
C will be going to Aegean Sea next wk to meet the boy's parents and to scatter his ashes into the sea as they had promised each other when they were together...
although they had already broke up for 6 months but who can forget a relationship which leave such a deep and sweet memories?
at the end of this post i just wanna say treasure the one you love don't just let go without fighting for it...
In loving memory
Darrel Yang JunEn
杨骏恩
1987 - 2007
always can't forget 20/10/2007
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