Thursday, November 15, 2007
老婆 --- to my 3 best friends
had been wanting to do this post for a long time so here it is...
really like S.H.E's song 老婆... besides it being their nick for each other, the music and lyrics are simple... as someone who writes songs as well i think its gd... not every song need big words to make it beautiful, sometimes simple stuff will be more easily appreciated...
bought their Play dvd like a month ago.... and everyday i have the urge to watch it even though i cry everytime i see it... u might think what is there to cry about? the dvd covers their mini concert in taiwan, mvs of their new album and backstage footages when they were in s'pore is it?
yup it is... @ their concert before they sang the song 老婆 there is a recording where the 3 of them said what they think of the term and also their feel for each other... in the recording, hebe did not cry, selina cried before she even started and ella's eyes were getting redder as she spoke...
but what caught my tears were what selina and ella had said...
selina said although they did not know each other since young but their closeness with each other makes it as if they had went through everything together... she said without them she would not be what she is today
ella said even they come from different family backgrounds they are still able to become really gd friends and are closer than most siblings are... she said they really change how she looks and do things... one sentence she said really made me remember it well... 知心的朋友不需要很多，一两个就够了
sometimes i really think that i dont have much friends cause i'm a rather slow person... i take quite sometime before i start talking to people... i'm thankful for the 3 close friends which i have to share my problems with... laywei for being there during my worst time around 2 yrs back; chris for sharing all the secrets that i have; hx for spending time with me when i need someone around...
there are still other friends out there but cause these 3 are the ones i meet most often so i decided to list them out...
if you ask me what is my definition of 老婆, i would say, "its a very intimate term and if you want me to be called that by my buddies i would say the person(s) must understand me well, be able to share all my woes and sorrows as well as give me options to my problems...
till now @ least i think the 3 of them are my 老婆 cause they have been doing everything that i have listed... i always have a dream...
have a few close friends, besides sharing your problems you also have fun together like sleepover, cooking together for your bf, sharing all juicy details of your life, living together, travel together, do lots of crazy things together, etc etc
maybe @ this stage i havent fulfill everything but i believe i'll be able to do all of these someday... ... ... =)
老婆
作词:任家萱(selina); 作曲:陈嘉桦(ella)
从昨天到今天还有明天
感谢老天让你们陪在我身边
爱的心痛的心等待的心
因为你们的拥抱我很放心
当初见面的不安彼此的探索
也许有些茫然迷惑
朝夕相处才发现这世界中
没有人比你们更懂我
朋友姐妹都已不够来形容
我们的默契骄傲
扶持与包容
老婆老婆
我们一起打勾勾
请记得约定的旅程到永久
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